Today we have a question from Cathy who resides in San Jose. She writes in and says after being in a
relationship for many years, I’m dating again and I’m wondering who pays on the first date? Well, this
is a complicated question when we’re talking about women dating women because it really depends.
So I would say that if you’re out on a date and you’re interesting in this person I think offering to pay
would be a really nice gesture. If the woman is not that open or interested in you paying you could go
dutch. Personally in my experience when I’m on a date, for us femme women, we like to be treated. I
think most of us like to be treated. So if you’re out on a date and you have more masculine traits and are
more butch. I would recommend treating your date. Good luck!
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