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Evaluating Deal Breakers

Today we have a question from Nancy who resides in Los Angeles. She says, how do I know if my deal breakers are standing in the way of me meeting Ms. Right? So it’s really important Nancy to sit down with your list of deal breakers and make sure you don’t have more than three. I want you to sit down and write down all your deal breakers and then write down your top three. For example, your top three could be, you’re not interested in dating someone who drinks excessively, maybe someone with children, if you know you don’t want to have kids that’s a deal breaker, maybe someone who is a workaholic. I want you to sit down and really break down that list because the longer your list of deal breakers is the more you have barriers up and the harder it is to meet somebody. So I want you to stay open as much as possible and really just select the top three. I hope this is helpful Nancy, good luck to you!

 

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0 #1 W C 2012-09-09 05:40
I am 60 and I have never come out, I have never had a relationship with a woman...I am a lesbian, but have been holding my self back. How do I meet a woman who will understand and help me. I am embarrassed to even tell people this about me. Help please.
Wendy
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0 #2 Frankie Bashan 2012-09-12 19:53
Hi WC-
Thank you for your post. Please look for my response via video on my site or written on curvemag.com.

Best,
Dr. Frankie
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