Today we have a question from Mel who lives in Kansas. She's asking how does she know if her partner's cheating on her? This is a good question Mel and I'm sorry that you're in this predicament now. If your gut is telling you that your partner is cheating on you I would say she probably is but there certain things you can look for that will give you some indications. One is if she's struggling to maintain eye contact with you. She seems kind of evasive and is avoiding interacting with you. There is a lot of guilt that's tied into all of this. It's hard to look your partner in the eyes when there's cheating and betrayal happening. Another thing you can look for is if they're changing their routine for example coming home later, taking better care of themselves, exercising, they're going out and shopping, buying new clothes, wearing new perfume. Another thing you can look for is the avoidance of processing anything regarding the relationship. Again, if your spidy sense is alerting you it's probably correct. I hope it all works out for you Mel. Good luck!
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