Welcome to Little Gay Book! Dr. Frankie specializes in lesbian matchmaking and bisexual matchmaking for singles in the San Francisco Bay Area, Los Angeles, and New York. She is a doctor of clinical psychology, a nationally recognized relationship coach and an expert in the field of human behavior...
Dr. Frankie is the CEO and founder of Little Gay Book; a local, personalized, boutique matchmaking service. Her area of expertise is finding love for the single lesbians and bisexual women of our community. She is an insider in the lesbian community and understands the challenges in meeting quality, emotionally and physically healthy women who are interested in a committed relationship.
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Welcome to Little Gay Book! Dr. Frankie is the CEO and founder of Little Gay Book; a local, personalized, boutique matchmaking service. Her area of expertise is finding love for the singles lesbians and bisexual women of our community. She is an insider in the lesbian community and understands the challenges in meeting high quality, professional, emotionally available women who are interested in a committed relationship. Lesbian matchmaking by Dr. Frankie provides an advantage over traditional means of dating. Dr. Frankie will broaden your social circle and remove the guesswork, legwork, and awkwardness from first dates. Dr. Frankie's clients will be inroduced to women who are serious about finding Ms. Right and creating a meaningful and fulfilling relationship. Dr. Frankie has expanded her services to not only include the San Francisco Bay Area but Los Angeles and New York as well. If you’re interested in finding a partner and wish to become a part of Dr. Frankie’s network, please click below.
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MARILYN PITMAN FROM NPR'S OUT IN THE BAY INTERVIEWS MATCHMAKERS DR. FRANKIE AND SONIYAH SINGH.
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FRATERNIZING WITH THE "ENEMY" CAN BE A NON-ISSUE (REALLY!)
Dr. Frankie Bashan, Psy.D., a San Francisco-based relationship expert, psychologist, and professional matchmaker for the lesbian community, shares her opinion with Match.com's Happen Magazine.
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RULES FOR LESBIAN DATING
Dr. Frankie Bashan has witnessed the things lesbians can do to make their relationships work and things that often cause relationships to fail. Here are Dr. Frankie Bashan’s rules for lesbian dating.
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DR. FRANKIE BASHAN: LESBIAN MATCHMAKER
Introducing Dr. Frankie Bashan in About.com's Lesbian Life.
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Dear Dr. Frankie,
I have been "taking it slow" for a month and a half with a girl that was previously my friend. Several months ago she got out of a seven-year relationship; I know she still has feelings for her ex. She also slept with another close friend almost two moths ago. She used to always tell me she wants to be with me, but she treats the other girl she slept with like a princess compared to me. She recently got evicted and is living with her ex. She doesn't talk to me as often as she used to, and we live two hours away from each other. Ever since her best friend kept pushing her to ask me out she's been pushing me away. I know she has a lot on her mind right now with the eviction, but she can't tell me if she still wants to be with me or not. She keeps her feelings so bottled up it’s hard to get her to talk to me about us. Does it sound like I'm wasting my time? Should I stick it out and just try to be there for her until it’s over and she can figure it out? By the way she's never been in a relationship with someone who didn't cheat on her or beat the crap out of her, so she's not used to someone treating her right. I think that the idea of being with someone like me who can treat her right actually scares her—and ultimately makes her push me away.
Dear Confused and in Love, It sounds like you are interested in someone who has a pattern of dating women who are emotionally unavailable. By this I mean women who are unable to love and care for her in a healthy way. People repeat unhealthy patterns because they are familiar and comfortable, even in spite of their better judgment. It seems as if this woman does not feel that she deserves anything better than what’s she’s experienced. The fact that you treat her well is unfamiliar, which means less comfortable, to her even though it is the healthier choice.
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Dr. Frankie of Little Gay Book, LLC is a matchmaker who focuses exclusively on finding love for singles in the Lesbian community. She holds a Doctorate in the field of Psychology and is an expert in the field of human behavior and matching, with years of experience.
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