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March 2014

Dear Dr. Frankie, I'm transgendered, M2F, I have not started to transition. I am not quite sure how to begin. Can you help? -Considering Transitioning Hello Considering Transitioning, I would start off by doing your research.  That includes searching for information about the medical procedure, attending transgender support groups, researching Dr.’s that perform the operation, and learning about all the steps in between (insurance

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Dear Dr. Frankie, Hi! I have a question about the current e-technology and long distance quotients in dating. I met a woman, (I'll name her "C") online (she answered my ad) and she lives 4 hours away by car. "C" loves the area where I live and would move if her career could move her. (I think this is why "C"

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Dear Dr. Frankie, I'm 51, lesbian and having a difficult time meeting women to date. I have been in quite a few serious relationships over the years and now would just like to date some nice women. I don't like the bar scene anymore and I'm not completely out, so it makes things difficult. I did recently join a PFLAG chapter

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Dear Dr. Frankie, I have been out of a long relationship for a year now, will I met someone who loves me and I them? -Looking For Love Dear Looking For Love, Absolutely, I think using your past as an anchor for possibilities in the future is a great way to look at things.  That you’ve had a long term relationship proves that you

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Dear Dr. Frankie, I am an attractive butch that is attracted to feminine women. I was in a mentally abusive relationship for 10 years with a femme who demanded control..I loved her or thought I did..I left her about 1 year and 1/2 ago and am ready to meet a true lady

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Dear Dr. Frankie, I am the most reasonable woman anyone could ever meet!  I can not understand for the life of me why can't I meet someone?  I am very easy going, drama free, cannot stand to argue, and I feel that anything can be talked about.  If the matter is serious go calm down then let’s talk later. I'm not

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Dear Dr. Frankie, Why am I gay? -Questioning Dear Questioning, I think we could look at this question in many different ways; on a personal, social, biological, and spiritual level.  Finding personal meaning and an identity in being gay is one question, as for reasons why, that could differ pending on how you view the world.  Epidemiological studies of sexual orientation have found that

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Dear Dr. Frankie, My partner and I recently split after 10 years together. There are a lot of underlying issues but his cheating was too much. I am 38 now and find the dating scene to be scary. I have always been optimistic but finding myself alone again I find myself in unfamiliar waters. Any advise where to go from here? -New

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Dear Dr. Frankie, I'm 2 yrs sober and I've been single for almost the same amount of time. If I'm to avoid alcohol type situations how can I meet lesbians without going to the clubs I used to go to? -Sober Dear Sober, I would do some research online and find lesbian events that occur outside of the club scene.  Depending on where you

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Dear Dr. Frankie, I met the woman I believe to be my soulmate about 2.5 years ago. I did not jump into a relationship with her because I wanted to be sure. After months of deliberation, I finally gave in to my feelings and decided to be with her. At that time, she had already told me that she was

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Dear Dr. Frankie, I was diagnosed with cancer this past Aug. Why is it that just when I start to know and the feelings start to grow, that the ladies disappear when I tell them? -Living with Cancer Dear Living with Cancer, It’s sad to say, but very true that many people when beginning a relationship will pull away if they perceive challenges, especially

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Dear Dr. Frankie, I have been single and celibate for more than a decade. At some point along the way, my dry spell has become self-perpetuating.  Potential new partners are scared off by my situation, and my degree of sexual inexperience compared to other people my age makes me nervous about physical intimacy, killing the mood for me. I’m really not

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Dear Dr. Frankie, Why do I feel like a dinosaur???? I'm butch. -Fossil Dear Fossil, What an interesting question.  This is a difficult question to answer not knowing what characteristic of a dinosaur you relate too.  From my own personal experience as a femme lesbian I can tell you that years ago when I went to gay bars no one thought I was

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Dear Dr. Frankie, I am extremely shy around women that I'm attracted to; so shy in fact that I will go out of my way to avoid them. Any advice on what I can do to stop this crazy behavior? -Social Phobia Dear Social Phobia, Social anxiety is quite common.  I would start by testing the waters.  Make a list of specific behaviors

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