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December 2016

Reid Mihalko is a self-proclaimed "Sex Geek," often asking his clients, "Are you dating your species?" What Mihalko is getting at in his stream of consciousness blog post using music as an analogyis this: If you're a Jazz lover, why are you still dating Classical lovers?   The idea is to give yourself permission to figure out what music makes you happiest, seek out people

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Last night’s Dinner for 6 at Firefly was wildly successful.   Beginning on a stressful note, we had a last minute cancellation: Diner #6 couldn't attend and that left the evening with only FIVE. While I frantically texted all the consultants of LGB for referrals, a sparkling replacement arrived (completely spontaneously) bringing a new energy and glow to the evening. As I looked around

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Dr. Frankie, My partner doesn't want children. After 8 years of being together. We had a commitment ceremony seven years ago, and she is the only person I have ever even kissed. As long as we have been together, she has said she wanted children “someday.” Now that the time has come to have children, she has decided she does not

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I’ve been doing a lot of reading of various articles, books and blogs on all things pertaining to sexuality and relationships. Over the course of the next few weeks I’ll be compiling some of my favorites, re-examining them in a new light and re-structuring them so you have a sampling of different perspectives on various relevant topics by experts in the

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Sexual attraction is a basic instinct that helps us bond with others. Not only does sex provide a short term reward of pleasure, it also facilitates multiple long term psychological and physiological gains. Whether we’re in a serious or casual relationship, the benefits of lesbian sex affects our brains, our organs and our perspectives on life. Let's start with a small,

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Ingredients for Finding a Meaningful Relationship Be Receptive Even if you’re looking for “the one,” be open to love wherever it comes. This means accepting a lot of dates and asking out a lot of people. Mrs. Right might arrive in a way you never expected and come in a package different from what you’ve imagined. Stay in the Moment Don’t think too far

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Dear Dr. Frankie, Why do I keep getting in relationships with women who cheat on me? -Cheater Magnet   Dear Cheater Magnet, It could be a few reasons. Sometimes when we have a distorted belief about our self, it influences how we act towards others (ie. attract others) that then confirms the original distorted belief. For example, if I think I’m unlovable, then I may

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Dear Dr. Frankie, My girlfriend and I have been together for two years. Last year, she went to grad school abroad, and the other day she called with a request: Can she have the freedom to sleep with other women even though she doesn't want to have a relationship with them? Honestly, I hate this idea and it makes me distrust whatever

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