Dear Dr. Frankie,
I have a huge problem meeting girls. I’m 36yrs old and the only people that hit on me are MEN. I’ve got the tom boy look yet I haven’t been able to find a GF in the last two years. I’m a very nice person and when I have a crush on somebody they always say to me ‘oh if i wasn’t involved I would go with you’ or ‘oh if I went that way it would be with you’ I’m a very nice person with a huge heart. I respect everybody. I have a good personality yet I can’t seem to meet anybody since my last GF which was 2 yrs ago. I don’t think I’m an ugly person though love comes from the heart. I just don’t know what to do. Can you help me please Dr. Frankie. Thanks for your time.
-Men Adore Me, Women I like Are Attached and the Others Are Straight
Dear Men Adore Me, Women I like Are Attached and the Others Are Straight
It can be frustrating trying to meet a potential partner, especially when all we keep running into is the unavailable, unattainable, or we’re just not that interested in them. I would say keep putting yourself out there in the lesbian scene including social events, online dating, and maybe even volunteering at LGBT events. The more you expose yourself in the scene the more likely you are to find someone that is single and available. Keep being yourself and stay patient. It can be a strength that you’ve had a break from a serious relationship to focus on yourself and peg exactly what you’re looking for in your next girlfriend. By staying open to possibilities and creating more opportunities to meet women in different venues, increases your chance of finding someone new. Good Luck to you and enjoy the process, just think someday you may miss the dating scene so enjoy what you have!