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Oakland: Lesbian/Bi Single Mingle – Personalized Speed Dating for Women of Color, Sat, Nov. 2nd, 6pm

Are you a queer woman wanting to meet more women? Our nationally successful “Singles Mingle” are fun, organic events that allow you to meet up to 15 women, in one night, all ready for new lover or friendship.

Becky, your event host, will make sure you're feeling comfortable and well taken care of.

How it works

Once you buy a ticket, you’ll receive an email and a text message with a link to your confidential speed dating profile. Your profiles includes: Your preferred date age-range, your preferred “type,” and a few bits of (confidential) info we need to run the event.  During the event, you’ll receive a text after every 5 minute round, directing you to your next date. After each date, you’ll add “feedback” (date, friend or business). Once the event ends, you have 24 hours to adjust your feedback. If both daters indicate the same level of interest, you’re a match!

Your Event Host, Becky, will check you in, make you feel welcome and calm any nervousness you may have.

This event is Women of Color centered, but everyone interested is welcome to attend!


We are TRANS-INCLUSIVE. This event is open to all queer women/lesbian-identified genderqueer and non-binary folk.

Sat, Nov. 2nd

Check in: 5:30pm

Speed Dating: 6-8pm 

District, 827 Washington Street, Oakland, CA
$30 Early Bird (sales end Oct. 26)
$35 Week-of (No tickets at the door)

Reserve your seat now

After the event keep the fun going at the lesbian dance party Hey Girl Hey at Era Art Bar and Lounge (19 Grand Ave, Oakland.) Mention Dr. Frankie’s Speed Dating at the door for FREE entry.

Yelp Reviews from previous attendees

  1. I recently attended a speed dating event, and so far, it’s been an enjoyable experience being face to face and talking to so many ladies… – Tina G, Redwood City
  2. …Painless and, actually, way more fun than I expected, I found something enjoyable in each of the thirteen 5-minute conversation blips… Lu K., Berkeley
  3. I attended my first speed dating event and I had a great time! There were approximately 45 women present and I had 12 dates. I made a bunch of new friendships and a couple possible dates. – Danielle, Walnut Creek

As the most successful exclusively lesbian/bi matchmaking agency in the US Little Gay Book’s brand of lesbian/bi speed dating has brought more women together, in more cities, in less time than any other matchmaking agency. In this era of passive online dating and detached texting, we get you face to face, with real conversations, real connections and real 2nd dates.

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