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Oakland: Lesbian/Bi Single Mingle – Personalized Speed Dating Sat, Jul 13th, 6pm All Ages, Aug 3rd, 6pm 45+

Are you a queer women wanting to meet more women? Or maybe you meet plenty, but aren’t certain if they’re single? Then this event is just for you. Our successful “Singles Mingle” are completely inclusive to queer, non-binary and transgender women. You’ll have a fabulous time meeting up to 15 women, in one night, all your type.

Specifically, for women of all ages, this Oakland Lesbian Event is open to all women looking for a woman lover. Trans/Genderqueer/Non-Binary/Bisexual folks encouraged to attend.

How it works! 


You will receive an email and a text message with a link to your profile. If you do not receive an email or text, there is no need to worry. You will be able to give the event host the information when you check in before the event. In your profile, you will be asked to provide 2 short answers related to where you feel you fall on the masculine/feminine expression spectrum and where your preferred date falls on the same spectrum. Add the preferred age-range of your potential dates, and you’re all set. The texting algorithm is designed to match your preferences as best as it can with whoever is in attendance. 



Our Event Host, Becky, will check you in, answer any questions, get you settled and make sure your phone is all set up to receive the event texts.

After each 5-7 minute round, you will receive a text message directing you to your next date. The more women that attend, the better! And while it’s not full matchmaking, this text messaging technology allows a more tailored experience than random, public speed dating.

At the end of each date, you’ll add “feedback” about your date (“2nd date,” or “friend” or “business”). When two singles indicate the same level of interest, we email you both with contact information.


Event Host, Dr. Frankie, will text and email you a link, within 24 hours, to your “matches.” You can match as “2nd date,” “friend” or “business.” Only if two people indicate the same level of interest, will a match be made.

For example, if you indicate “2nd date,” and she indicates “friend,” = no match.  If you both indicate “friend,” = match.
The rest is up to you.

Sat, July 13th, 6:00pm (All Ages)
District, 827 Washington Street, Oakland, CA

$30 Early Bird (sales end July 6th, 11:30pm)

$35 Week-of (ends July 13th, 5pm). No tickets at the door.

Reserve Your Seat for Sat, Jul 13th (All Ages)

Sat, Aug 3rd, 6:00pm (45+)
District, 827 Washington Street, Oakland, CA

$30 Early Bird (sales end July 27th, 11:30pm)
$35 Week-of (ends Aug 3rd, 5pm). No tickets at the door.

Reserve Your Seat for Sat, Aug 3rd (45+)

Need more convincing?

Watch video testimonials from previous participants

Read our Single Mingle FAQ page

Read more reviews from previous participants

Lesbian/Bi Speed Dating: 5 Minutes of Fun!

Yelp Reviews from previous attendees

I recently attended a speed dating event, and so far, it’s been an enjoyable experience being face to face and talking to so many ladies… – Tina G, Redwood City

…Painless and, actually, way more fun than I expected, I found something enjoyable in each of the thirteen 5-minute conversation blips… Lu K., Berkeley

I attended my first speed dating event and I had a great time! There were approximately 45 women present and I had 12 dates. I made a bunch of new friendships and a couple possible dates. – Danielle, Walnut Creek


As the most successful exclusively lesbian/bi matchmaking agency in the US Little Gay Book’s brand of lesbian/bi “single mingling” has brought more women together, in more cities, in less time than any other matchmaking agency. In this era of passive online dating and detached texting, we get you face to face, with real conversations, real connections and real 2nd dates. 

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