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    Here Is How Our Matchmaking Process Works

    Lesbian Matchmaking by Dr. Frankie

    Lesbian Matchmaking isn’t dating. It’s finding the woman of your dreams.

    Our lesbian matchmaking is done by Dr. Frankie and her team of matchmakers, who personally vet multiple women that match your specific set of preferences and only introduce you to the ones who will be your perfect match.

    With lesbian matchmakers all over the US, Little Gay Book is meeting women all around the country, vetting potential matches and recruiting more to add themselves to our matchmaking database. Known for their outgoing and fun personalities, LGB matchmakers do all the legwork, so you don’t have to.

    Lesbian matchmaking is for successful, professional women who are serious and committed to finding the right partner, but don't have the time. They are sophisticated, emotionally stable and ready to do the work to find a compatible, loving partner.

    The Process


    Complete a Profile

    A very intimate and individualized process, matchmaking starts with a profile. Adding your profile to our Matchmaking Database is the first step to us getting to know you. Other than the usual demographics (age, address, work, etc), the most important thing we need to know: What are you looking for? Hard femme? Soft Butch? Is she artistic? Analytical? How does she spend her time? These things allow us to truly get a sense of what you're looking for so don't skip those questions.


    Add Two Current Photos to Your Profile

    You can add more than two, but we need one head-shot, and one full body. This is not to embarrass you, but to begin to get a sense of you and your personality. The photos you submit will only be viewed by LGB Matchmakers and will never be shared. You must provide good photos for the process to progress.


    Schedule a Consultation

    Now that we have your profile in our state of the art matchmaking software (it's Canadian, so you know it's good), it's time to drill down into what you are truly looking for in a mate - We do this with a Consultation. A Consultation is a 90 minute interview with Dr. Frankie, where she drills down into who you are and who your loving match is. And like every healthy relationship, it starts with authentic communication. A Consultation is also your time to ask questions, get clarifications and find out everything about the matchmaking.


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    Discuss and decide on your Matchmaking Package

    Like women, Matchmaking Packages come in all shapes and sizes. Most have time frames (6, 9, 12 or 18 months) with a certain number of "Introductions," promised within that time frame. Each package is tailored to your needs and capacities. For example, if you travel often, you may want to do a longer package to accommodate your schedule. Or, you might want a make-over or wardrobe consultant, and we can help you with that too. Your matchmaker will discuss the details of each package and which one she thinks would be best for you.

    Need more convincing? Here's what a few of our previous clients had to say: