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New Online Speed Dating For Women Across the US

During this time of staying home, we are excited to offer our popular Single Mingle Personalized Speed Dating event in a new online format.


We can’t wait until we are able to meet in person again, but in the meantime, our hope is that these online events will provide a way for our community to continue to get together to mix and mingle, flirt a little and make new friends. We could all use an opportunity to connect these days, so we hope you’ll join us.

We will be using the same smartphone technology we use during our in person events, but we will meet online and all dates will happen in Break Out Rooms in the Zoom Video Conferencing App.

These Lesbian/Bi events are inclusive of bisexual, and trans women who feel a connection to the identity of “woman” and would like to meet more women. No men, please.

How it works:

Using simple smartphone technology, we tailor the event to the age and “type” of person you’d like to meet. You tell us where your preferred date lies on the masculine-feminine expression spectrum, along with her age-range and we send you a smartphone message after each 5-minute round to meet her. We remove the obstacles to getting face to face with a new friend and leave the real connection to you.

After each 5-minute round, you will add “feedback” about your date (“2nd date,” “Friend” or “Business”). 24 hours later, you’ll receive a smartphone message with contact info for your matches. While it’s not full lesbian/bi matchmaking, this smartphone messaging technology allows a more tailored experience than random, public speed dating.

This is a great chance to meet other women who are also looking to connect and these events are filled with great conversations, smiles, and laughter. Lots of date matches *and* friend matches – come check it out!

Schedule of Events:

May 23rd, 3:30pm PT –

San Francisco Bay Area

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May 24th, 6:30pm PT –

Los Angeles

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May 30th, 6pm CT –


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June 4th, 4pm PT –

Jewish Women 

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June 5th, 4pm PT –

Vegetarian/Vegan Women

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June 6th, 4pm ET –

St. Pete / Tampa

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June 7th, 3pm CT –


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June 8th, 5:30pm PT –

Christian Women

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June 11th, 7pm ET –

New York City Femme seeking Femme

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June 12th, 7pm ET –

Washington, DC

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June 27th, 3pm PT –

Women 50+

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June 28th, 3pm PT –

Executive/Career Women

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July 1st, 7pm ET –

New York City

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July 2nd, 4pm PT –

Sober Women

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July 3rd, 6pm CT –


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July 5th, 4pm ET –

Gainesville Greater Area

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July 5th, 3:30pm PT –

Democrat seeking Democrat

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All events are hosted by Dr. Frankie Bashan, PsyD of Little Gay Book

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Yelp Reviews from previous attendees


“I recently attended a speed dating event, and so far, it’s been an enjoyable experience being face to face and talking to so many ladies…” – Tina G, Redwood City


“…Painless and, actually, way more fun than I expected, I found something enjoyable in each of the thirteen 5-minute conversation blips…” Lu K., Berkeley


“I attended my first speed dating event and I had a great time! There were approximately 45 women present and I had 12 dates. I made a bunch of new friendships and a couple of possible dates.” – Danielle, Walnut Creek

As the most successful exclusively lesbian/bi matchmaking agency in the US Little Gay Book’s brand of lesbian/bi speed dating has brought more women together, in more cities, in less time than any other matchmaking agency. In this era of passive online dating and detached texting, we get you face to face, with real conversations, real connections and real 2nd dates.

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