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Dear Dr. Frankie: I need some practice asking the right kind of questions on a lesbian date. I don't think I want to tell her right away what I'm looking for, and then distrust her when she tells me what she knows I want to hear.  I think I want to ask her questions to get to know her and

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Dear Dr. Frankie, 
One thing that I consistently see in the lesbian world is short lived relationships. I come from a world where my parents have been together for 52 years, have friends and siblings who have been together for 20 plus years, and really value lifelong commitments. My beef is that it seems that those are few and far in

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Dr. Frankie, My partner doesn't want children. After 8 years of being together. We had a commitment ceremony seven years ago, and she is the only person I have ever even kissed. As long as we have been together, she has said she wanted children “someday.” Now that the time has come to have children, she has decided she does not

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Dear Dr. Frankie, Why do I keep getting in relationships with women who cheat on me? -Cheater Magnet   Dear Cheater Magnet, It could be a few reasons. Sometimes when we have a distorted belief about our self, it influences how we act towards others (ie. attract others) that then confirms the original distorted belief. For example, if I think I’m unlovable, then I may

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Dear Dr. Frankie, My girlfriend and I have been together for two years. Last year, she went to grad school abroad, and the other day she called with a request: Can she have the freedom to sleep with other women even though she doesn't want to have a relationship with them? Honestly, I hate this idea and it makes me distrust whatever

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Dear Dr. Frankie, When is it safe to share my life-long struggle with depression and use of anti-depressant medication with someone I am dating? Dear Depressed, I do not recommend sharing such personal information too early on. On the contrary, waiting too long to tell her may feel to her like you’ve kept a secret from her. My suggestion would be to wait

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Dear Dr. Frankie,  I just got out of a 9 yr relationship. This woman cheated so much that I became a drug addict to cope and ended up in rehab and a psych ward because I tried to take my own life. I'm not proud of this and since then, we have been together whenever she feels lonely. In the mean

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